FOCUS STUDY: “HAND THIS MAN OVER TO SATAN, SO THAT THE SINFUL NATURE MAY BE DESTROYED”
The congregation at Corinth included a man who called himself a brother (1Cor 5:11). This man was involved in an incestuous relationship with his father’s wife (1Cor 5:1). 1 Corinthians 5 is all about how the congregation handled this situation – and how they should have handled it.
After pointing out that their congregational sin of pride de-motivated the church from addressing the problem, Paul wrote to them “
In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of his flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus” (1 Cor 5:4-5)
He reminded them a few verses later that he had written them a previous letter where he warned them “
not to associate with immoral people; I did not at all mean with the immoral people of this world, or with the covetous and swindlers, or with idolaters, for then you would have to go out of the world. But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler—not even to eat with such a one” (5:9-11).
Delivering a man to Satan to destroy his flesh is a very uncomfortable thought. It sounds downright evil on the surface. Some churches call it disfellowshipping, some disenfranchising, others excommunicating. No matter what you call it, it’s an unpleasant practice for all involved, and in modern churches it doesn’t happen much anymore.
Three major questions come to my mind:
- What does delivering someone to Satan mean in practice?
- When and how should we deliver someone to Satan?
- How does delivering someone to Satan help destroy his sinful nature?
What does disfellowship mean in practice? To understand “disfellowship,” we need to understand “fellowship.”
One meaning of fellowship in the Bible is “Partnership, sharing the same purpose and goals.” Think of a business partnership. Two owners of a business are obviously working toward the same goals. You may have seen the word “koinonia” before. That’s the Greek word in the New Testament that represents this type of fellowship.
For instance, in Php 1:3-5 Paul thanks God for that church’s “partnership” in the gospel.
And in 2 Cor 8:23 He said “
Titus is my partner and fellow worker for your benefit.”
Another meaning of fellowship in the Bible is “in the middle” or “among” in the sense of “among you.” The Greek word behind that is “Mesos.” It’s an extremely common word, occurring 56 times in the NT. This word is used in English as prefix in several contexts. For example, “Meso-America” refers to “middle America” and in science “mesoderm” is the middle stage of an embryo’s development when muscle and bone are formed. In the context of fellowship, you might call this “hanging out together.”
So in the Bible, fellowship can mean working toward a shared goal or simply hanging out together.
In 1Cor 5:2, Paul chose the word mesos. He simply told the church that this unrepentant incestuous Christian should not be allowed into their Christian assemblies. Clear enough.
But how can we omit someone from our fellowship in a godly way?
Jesus gave specific instruction for this. Take a look at Matt. 18:15-17. I’ve quoted it below but added numbers to show the steps Jesus outlined:
“
If your brother sins,
- go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother. But if he does not listen to you,
- take one or two more with you, so that by the mouth of two or three witnesses every fact may be confirmed. If he refuses to listen to them,
- tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church,
- let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.”
You can see that, for both Jesus and Paul, the whole process is designed to restore the brother, and the whole process is an act of love. The final step in Jesus’ instruction is disfellowshipping him - treating him as an outsider - which Paul calls “turning him over to the hands of Satan.”
We have to assume that the Corinthian church had already gone through Jesus’ first three steps with the incestuous man. After all, it had already become a whole-church issue (which was Jesus’ step 3). Now it was time to remove him, but the pride in this church made them reluctant to do so.
How would turning this guy over to Satan help destroy his sinful nature?
A church could have many motivations kicking this guy out: Disgust, revenge, reputation, etc. But those would be wrong. A congregation must remove a stubbornly sinful brother from its fellowship for a very specific purpose: “So that the sinful nature may be destroyed” and “so that his spirit may be saved” (1Cor 5:5). It must be strictly out of concern for the wayward believer.
We can better understand how “kicking him out” helps him by understanding how he should be treated and understanding the benefits of getting together with Christians.
How he should be treated: I don’t believe it means never talk to him. It means do not treat him like a brother. Jesus gave us a clue about that when He said “
Treat him like you would a pagan or tax collector” (Matt 18:17). And we know that we should we treat pagans and tax collectors with love and grace and with determined attention to help them draw close to God. If that is how we should treat unbelievers, it’s certainly how we should treat sinful believers. We should help them repent and rid their lives of sin.
The benefits of getting together with Christians: I searched the New Testament for clues about the benefits of getting together with other Christians. There may be more, but I found these 13 passages:
- Acts 11:23: “When he arrived and saw the evidence of the grace of God, he was glad and encouraged them all to remain true to the Lord with all their hearts.”
- Romans 1:11-12: “I long to see you so that... you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other's faith.”
- Romans 15:32: “by God's will I may come to you with joy and together with you be refreshed.”
- 1 Corinthians 16:18: “they refreshed my spirit and yours also. Such men deserve recognition.”
- 2 Corinthians 2:3: “I wrote as I did so that when I came... you would all share my joy.”
- 2 Corinthians 7:4: “I have great confidence in you; I take great pride in you. I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds.”
- 2 Corinthians 7:13: “... we were especially delighted to see how happy Titus was, because his spirit has been refreshed by all of you.”
- 1 Thessalonians 3:10: “Night and day we pray most earnestly that we may see you again and supply what is lacking in your faith.”
- 2 Timothy 1:4: “I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy.”
- 2 Timothy 1:16: “Onesiphorus ...often refreshed me and was not ashamed of my chains.”
- Hebrews 10:24-25: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another”
- Philemon 7: “... You, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the saints.”
- 3 John 3: “It gave me great joy to have some brothers come and tell about your faithfulness to the truth and how you continue to walk in the truth.”
To condense that down, believers get together in order to:
- Strengthen and mutually encourage each other’s faith
- Refresh each other
- Share each other’s joy
- Supply what is lacking in each other’s faith
- Spur each other on to love and good deeds
Additionally, the Hebrews writer tells us to “encourage one another daily, as long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness” (Heb 3:13) and Paul told the Thessalonians to “Encourage one another and build each other up” (1 Thes 5:11).
CONCLUSION: A disfellowshipped believer loses all of the above privileges when he is turned over to Satan! It must be incredibly painful to have tasted the beauty of all of that and then lose it. When we remove a stubbornly sinful believer from such incredible support, encouragement, strengthening, and joy; when we turn him back to finding his own way and the hopelessness from which he was once rescued; when we minister to him the way we would minister to a pagan or tax collector in order to restore his fellowship with God... I guess if all of that doesn’t help destroy his sinful nature so that his spirit is saved on the day of the Lord, what will?